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6th of Aug 2014 • 07:32 PM • 1 note
Anonymous asked: Are you into the nsfw side of the furry fandom? I just got curious from looking at past posts and questions.

I’m not into it so much as I like looking at and making some art. So kinda I guess? 

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27th of Jul 2014 • 08:37 PM • 1 note
MOD APPLICATIONS »

confessionsofafurry:

okay im not going to be mega formal with this because this is a pretty chill blog so

alright fill this out if you wanna be a mod and send it in here:

Before applying please read this.
To apply you must be 18 or older, thank you.

  1. Why do you want to be a mod?
  2. How long have you been…

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27th of Jul 2014 • 01:46 AM • 1 note
MOD APPLICATIONS

okay im not going to be mega formal with this because this is a pretty chill blog so

alright fill this out if you wanna be a mod and send it in here:

Before applying please read this.
To apply you must be 18 or older, thank you.

  1. Why do you want to be a mod? 
  2. How long have you been in the fandom? 
  3. Why should you be picked to help?
  4. Do you typically get along with others?
  5. How would you resolve contention?
  6. How much time do you have to spare for the blog?
  7. Will you respect the privacy of the confessors, do you promise to keep identities anonymous? 
  8. If you like, feel free to tell me about yourself and your experience with the fandom:
  9. Lastly: How would you like to be contacted, ei email, skype?
  10. feel free to and any info you want 

ill accept apps until august 27th. after that they will close and i will take a week to decide on mods. meaning by september 6th we will have one or two mods! 

so yeah get to it babes

ask me questions if you have any

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24th of Jul 2014 • 10:37 PM • 4 notes

actually thinking of opening up mod apps and getting this blog back in gear, yeah. 

i was really adverse to a co-mod(s) for a long time but i really think that’d actually help a lot.

what d’yall think, anyone interested in applying if i make a form?

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19th of Jul 2014 • 07:36 AM • 0 notes
Anonymous asked: Just an added point on the "transgendered" thing my friend said recently, it's almost like taking about them in a past tense. If that makes sense. Nice to see you coming back by the way n.n

yeah, another reason it just doesn’t make sense to say that, imo.

and thank you! just been answering asks though, haven’t goten around to making confessions like i’d planned on;; we’ll get there.

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19th of Jul 2014 • 07:16 AM • 0 notes
Anonymous asked: "im sorry :/ sounds like it was a really nestled in group." Youre tellin me dude. Well there was a point when a few of these dudes dressed up in fursuits and to my surprise I was really creeped out by it because of that uncanny valley feeling. And I was beside myself when these dudes went out front and had a tickle fight. By all means enjoy your tickle fight, embrace it but dont do it outside when we are in the heart of a BLOOD community. I felt like these dudes were puttin a big bullseye on.

blood as in bed ‘n blues? oh. my god.

but yeah, thats p wild. maybe you’re better off hanging around a different crowd if you think things could go down bad or something because of that.

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18th of Jul 2014 • 10:19 AM • 1 note
Anonymous asked: How much do you like the admins on FA? I really feel skeezed out knowing they have shady backgrounds and recently people like Dragoneer and two other admins that have a lot of controversy around the always started following me. I also have a SoFurry and Weasly but I feel those sites are only starting to compete kinda.

I have all three of those sites and it’s kinda funny how a lot of people feel the need to stick to one. They are all pretty decent from what I’ve experienced, save for like you said, the skeevy stuff going on behind the scenes at FA. I haven’t been paying attention to the mods of the site to be honest, but I do know a lotta bad stuff went down before.

If anyone else had an opinion on the matter feel free reblog this with commentary. 

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11th of Jul 2014 • 04:27 AM • 0 notes
Anonymous asked: "How were you when talking to people." I was pretty cool in my opinion. I would try to talk to em and keep the convo goin with "how long youve been a fur, what type of fur are ya, etc" but I just got one word responses or short phrases, and that makes it pretty hard to keep talkin. When I first got there, I brought a case of brew, everyone kinda just stopped what they were doin and just looked at me like I walked into the wrong house. The only guy that really greeted me was the host. *shrugs*

im sorry :/ sounds like it was a really nestled in group.

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9th of Jul 2014 • 10:47 PM • 44 notes
Anonymous asked: I joined the fandom about 3 years ago and I went to my first furmeet last year but I was so uncomfortable. Guys just kept hitting on me and "play touching" and flirting nonstop! Is the fandom that desperate for girls to join? I asked them nice to stop, and they didnt so I got louder and told them to knock it off and they wouldn't! And the worst thing is I'm only 14 and at the time I was only 13! And these guys are 25 - 35! AND I TOLD THEM I WAS UNDERAGED

twoschnapps:

confessionsofafurry:

I’m sorry, that’s really messed up! Not to mention illegal. Was there a head of the furmeet? If you go to another one bring a friend you trust or a parent. If anything like that happens again report it to the head of the meet up or just leave if you continue to be made uncomfortable

This is really super creepy. I insist you try to find a meet group that deals well with people your age, and also has a good number of women/couples and adults as well as kids because a balanced group is the best I’ve noticed at calling this shit out… That and usually you get to know if a group is well controlled/policed within itself really quickly.

Regardless, I find the rule is never to be alone with a bunch of older guys, especially if you’re a younger girl in a male dominated space like this fandom. This is the sad truth and is just on the safe side because I’ve had lovely experiences with mostly male dominated groups, but some really bad ones elsewhere that could have been bad if I wasn’t with a female friend or I wasn’t the person to speak up for someone else. I’ve spoken up for a guy who was also getting harassed by a younger girl once who was afraid of what would happen if he spoke back. Works both ways, but I’ve seen it happen to single females more visibly and experienced this. None of these experiences are recent, and my bad experiences are far and few between the good ones.

I’ve had and so far I haven’t had any bad experiences in this fandom yet, and most of the bad experiences were when I was younger, in a different fandom, and obviously should have been supervised more at certain meets.

STILL…

At first, you really have to be safe during meets because these people are strangers like it or not. Otherwise it’s totally their fault, and you should report these guy’s behavior to whoever was in charge of the meet, and tell/bring someone close to you to all these events just to be sure.

Any further behavior by them should be made public, and brought to your parents/police/any law enforcement nearby. I would refrain from going to any non-public spaces with a group for the first time. My first furmeet was at a carnival so there was a lot of foot traffic and I could get help or leave of needed, but the group I was with at the time was lovely and more interest in art and getting to talk.

I would not suggest trying to hang around this particular group if they made you feel that uncomfortable at the first meet. It might just be them, but always be on the safe side. I hope your future experiences are better.

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9th of Jul 2014 • 10:45 PM • 1 note
Anonymous asked: Im a 23 year old, 6ft, 250lb but not sloppy built black guy from PA. I tried my hand at the fandom and just as quickly, quit it.I like the art, the stories, and a few other aspects but some of the people I interacted with just seemed "weird" to me or "put off" by me when we spoke and it seemed as though "I wasnt welcomed." Can you shed some light on this please? Was it shyness? The Culture shock to a black dude? Being intimidated by me? (there are more factors on why I quit)

Nah, it ain’t because of anything like race. Probably just who you talked to, how they precised you, stuff like that. How were you when talking to people?

Little circles in the fandom can be really hard to get into, and on the other hand sometimes you find people that are ready and willing to make new friends :0

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9th of Jul 2014 • 10:39 PM • 1 note
Anonymous asked: My sona' is based on alcoholic drink and was supposed to be a lush/party animal/bit of a drunk... but in real life I can't drink more than one beer anymore because I'm on a cocktail (pun intended) of medications for anxiety that the alcohol may not have helped. I think I used to like to drink a lot, but in a way I think obsession over the character and even thinking she's going through the same problems... it might seem to be helping me?

It seems like it’s a good way to vent, yeah. Living it out in your character so you dont have to subject yourself to it, in a way?

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9th of Jul 2014 • 08:15 PM • 2 notes
Anonymous asked: To add to my last ask about being harassed for relationship by older furries and such I post anonymously because they same people found my FA and kept it up so I changed accounts and now under a new account and would like to remain under anonymously and so I come o my question, what should I do? Should I ditch the fandom?

It’s really up to you. If you do not feel safe in the fandom you could leave if you think it’d be better for yourself. Either that or stick around but be weary of who you talk to. Maybe stick around others your age or do a little reading on who people are before you befriend them?

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9th of Jul 2014 • 08:14 PM • 44 notes
Anonymous asked: I joined the fandom about 3 years ago and I went to my first furmeet last year but I was so uncomfortable. Guys just kept hitting on me and "play touching" and flirting nonstop! Is the fandom that desperate for girls to join? I asked them nice to stop, and they didnt so I got louder and told them to knock it off and they wouldn't! And the worst thing is I'm only 14 and at the time I was only 13! And these guys are 25 - 35! AND I TOLD THEM I WAS UNDERAGED

I’m sorry, that’s really messed up! Not to mention illegal. Was there a head of the furmeet? If you go to another one bring a friend you trust or a parent. If anything like that happens again report it to the head of the meet up or just leave if you continue to be made uncomfortable

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30th of Jun 2014 • 08:50 PM • 5 notes
eyonsplicer asked: The guy threatening to shoot up AC.

hey guys, please be careful if you’re going to anthrocon!

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